I figured I better post something about this baby and
pregnancy before the baby gets here! We
found out we were pregnant in late may and had already planned a trip to
Colorado and Utah to visit family. I was
planning on staying in Utah for a month to help my dad recover from his 3rd
and hopefully final open heart surgery and to work a little. We had a great time in Colorado and then
headed to Moab. I was quickly reminded
that I was pregnant as the nausea hit me hard in Moab…I was ready for some zofran! We made our way to Utah and we all were so
revealed to see my dad recovering from surgery and all the horrible IV
antibiotics! We weren't planning on
telling anyone we were pregnant for a couple weeks, just because of my history
of miscarriages it’s never too exciting until we make it past 12wks. But I
couldn't hide the nausea from my parents and told them we were expecting a baby
in early January. Luckily my dad loaned
me some of his zofran until dr dabbling could call some in for me. We all laughed pretty hard because I came to
Utah to help my dad, but after about a week he was taking care of me more than
I of him.
The pregnancy was
going great and we were having a great time in Utah until around 9wks. I had a
huge episode of bleeding. I felt like I had just peed my pants but
unfortunately I was bleeding, and bleeding heavily. The good thing was that I was in great
hands. With my family around and with
such great doctors that quickly ordered an ultrasound to see what was going
on. Because I have worked at the OB office for so long I knew it was one of two things, either a miscarriage or a
subchorionic hemorrhage. I was hoping
for the latter, even though I knew subchorionic’s have risks and problems. Thankfully, the ultrasound showed that it was just a small subchorionic bleed. it’s basically just a small tear within the sac of the uterus,
and if the tear doesn't heal it will continue to tear and you will lose the
pregnancy. They don’t know why they
happen and really the only treatment is bed rest to allow the tear to
completely heal. I was more than
devastated to hear that I would be on bed rest.
I immediately had horrible Post-traumatic stress memories of being on bed rest for over
4months with the twins. The bed rest was
hard, but the recovery was more than brutal. And i mentally didn't know if i would be able to handle bed rest again. I had really hoped that this pregnancy would be different from the twins. i knew that it might not be easy, but i thought i would at least be able to stand and walk, anything is better than laying in bed all day everyday. It was also a little tricky because spencer was back in texas working an ER rotation that he couldn't take any leave from, and i was instructed to lay in bed for at least 2 wks while the bleed healed. It was hard being apart, but we knew we were doing what was right for this pregnancy.
And to make matters more complicated about 2 1/2 years ago i got diagnosed with ulcertive colitis. A bowel disease that is really painful and hard to treat. And for me i seem to have flare ups of the disease when i am stressed or i over exercise. With the news that this pregnancy was going to be difficult i couldn't help but stress out, which then cause my bowels to cramp and become painful and then make the pregnancy more at risk. So i was having a really rough start to this pregnancy and was really worried that things wouldn't turn out with a successful chubby 40wk baby.
Thankfully i was in great hands with my family. my dad who was recovering from open heart surgery who i initially came to help him recover, took the girls under his wings and took excellent care of them. Even Jo's little 10yr old Gage came over to help babysit the twins while i laid helpless on the couch. Needless to say, our 1 month vacation to Utah ended up being a 10wk stay-cation. My GI doctors and my OB doctors were able to work together to get me on the best medications to calm my bowels, but not harm the pregnancy. It was a long, emotional, and challenging couple of weeks. Finally we got the news that the tear had held and my bowels had calmed down enough so we could head home. I was nervous to leave all the great support of my family, but knew it would be too hard to be away from spencer the whole pregnancy.
Grandma Debbie was willing to drive us all the way to texas because i was still have some minor complications with my bowel disease and needed to lay down most of the drive. so after a 3 day drive we finally made it home to texas.
after several doctors appts and several adjustments in medication and several answered prayers the baby and i am doing great! we had a really rough couple of weeks but since about 18wks everything has been going great! i still can't do too much activity, i had to quit my spin teaching job at the gym which was really hard. but i constantly remind myself i can't be too greedy, all i want is a healthy baby in january. even if that means i gain 85lbs again, and can't do most of the things i enjoy it will all be worth it in just a few months. so thank you to all those that prayed, and helped with the girls. i feel so grateful to have such wonderful friends and family that no matter what, they always come through when needed.
the baby is due January 11, and to spencer's greatest desire and ultimate wish, we aren't going to find out the gender. He has always wanted to be surprised at delivery, and since this will probably be our last baby, i figure i better let him enjoy it as much as he can. though all the grandmas and aunts are dying to know, there will be a lot of excitement and probably panic when the baby arrives.
Tenley and Quincy are so excited to have little baby CC soon. (Since we don't know the gender we are calling the baby CC, since tenley was baby A, Quincy was baby B, its only fitting that this baby be baby C.) The twins are are getting a little practice with our friends baby, isabelle. tenley loves holding her and even sings songs, it is so sweet! they girls have adjusted really well to the fact that mommy can't carry them, or run, or swing, or jump with them. they are pretty understanding and it amazes me how flexible they really are.
I am getting extra huge, as i seem to do when pregnant. its amazing what happens when i stop exercising....all the treats add up fast and so do the pounds. the baby is growing great and doing really well. spencer finally felt CC kick and i love feeling the baby move around, that is my favorite part. I am very grateful to be pregnant and to have come this far. I also am very grateful that we are only having 1 baby this time. I know that eventually i will get huge and uncomfortable, but right now i can still lay on my back, and sides. it was right around this time with the girls i no longer could lay on my sides because it would squish a baby, so i could never get comfortable or sleep. but so far i'm sleeping good and breathing fine!
i'll try to update more on this baby....poor thing hasn't really even been mentioned and we are 5months along. thanks again for all the prayers and encouragement!
